Rockville Centre native Mary Hansen dies at 81

Educator, guidance counselor devoted life to service

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Mary Hansen, a longtime Rockville Centre resident, educator, guidance counselor and tax professional, died on April 19 after a life devoted to education, family, faith and service. She was 81. 

Born Mary Tucker in Manhattan in 1944, she was raised in Brooklyn, where she developed the intellectual curiosity and determination that would guide her throughout her life. She earned bachelor's and master's degrees from Fordham University and pursued additional graduate studies at New York University and Brooklyn College. She later received a master's degree from Hofstra University. 

In 1970, Hansen ran for the New York State Assembly, demonstrating an early interest in public service and civic engagement. Two years later, in August 1972, she married Richard Hansen, beginning a partnership that would span more than five decades. 

Hansen spent about 26 years working in New York City public schools, first as an English language arts teacher and later as a guidance counselor. Dedicated to helping students reach their potential, she touched countless lives through her work in classrooms and counseling offices. She also worked for more than 20 years as an enrolled agent, preparing tax returns and assisting clients with financial matters. 

In 1980, a year after the birth of their son, Randell, she and her husband moved to Rockville Centre, where they lived for nearly 40 years. 

Even while balancing professional and family responsibilities, Hansen continued her own education. One of her son's earliest memories was accompanying her to graduate classes, where he completed homework while she attended lectures, witnessing firsthand her dedication and perseverance. 

After retiring from the New York City school system in 2000, Hansen devoted more time to travel. Alongside her husband and often her son, she visited destinations throughout Europe, Japan, South America and across the United States.  

Family trips throughout the Northeast and visits to amusement parks became cherished traditions. Known for her adventurous spirit, she eagerly joined her son on roller coasters and thrill rides, with Space Mountain at Walt Disney World among her favorite attractions. 

“I remember our trips to amusement parks when I was a kid,” Randell Hansen said. “She loved going on all the roller coasters with me.” 

Hansen was also one of her son's biggest supporters, encouraging him throughout his quest to complete marathons in all 50 states as well as major races in Berlin, London and Tokyo. 

During retirement, she pursued artistic interests that reflected both her creativity and faith, including religious icon painting and botanical art. She remained active in her church community and deeply devoted to her family. 

“She was a good, hardworking person,” her son said. “She loved her family, and she was deeply devoted to her church.” 

In late 2018, Hansen and her husband relocated to the Sacramento area to be closer to Randell, and his wife, Heather. During the final two years of her life, the couple resided at Sunrise Senior Living in Carmichael, California. 

Hansen will be remembered for her dedication to education, strong faith, artistic talents, love of travel and unwavering commitment to family. She leaves behind a legacy of learning, service and compassion that will endure through the many lives she influenced.